Ever spend lots of time and/or money on a project, and then stop before it hits the finish line, i.e., losing that last 20 lbs., publishing that book you wrote, etc.? Which one of the 12 reasons is causing us to sabotage ourselves? A FREE VIDEO below gives some answers

Pull Up Self-Sabotage by the Roots

March 19, 2013

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What is self-sabotage?

 

Self-Sabotage is the Symptom, Not the Problem

 

If you think of self-sabotaging behaviors as weeds in your garden, I think this concept will make more sense.
So let’s take a nice garden. You have the flowers growing, a nice place to sit and relax and a cup of tea. As you’re looking around admiring your garden, you notice this big, ugly weed right in the middle. You can’t keep your eye off it. It is absolutely ruining your nice afternoon.

You get up and try to yank it out, but only the leaves come off the top. The root is still in the ground. “That’s okay,” you think to yourself. “At least the garden looks good again.”

The next week you’re sitting in the garden with some friends and all of a sudden you notice the same weed and a couple of its buddies. “Oh my gosh! I pulled that out last week? And it is back, but worse!” you say.
So, you get up and pull it and its friends out. Same thing week after week. Pretty soon, all you see are weeds. They have taken over and you can’t keep up. Now, you’re overwhelmed with weeds and don’t even want to go outside so you can relax.



This is insanity...We do things to address the problems we have in our life, but we don’t address the root of what is creating them. So, instead of pulling the root of the weed, we only pull off the parts we can see to manage things for a while...

Locating the Roots... We really have no idea what is going on unless we can find the roots. This is where our A-H-A Solutions program comes in. This program helps you track the root based on evaluating the self-sabotaging behaviors (the leaves). We have developed twelve different types of roots, or attachments as they are called, that show themselves through a series of common behaviors. Using our self-assessment worksheet you will be able to pinpoint which attachment is hiding under the surface, waiting to mess you up.

Then, once the attachment is identified, we can come up with options. Do we keep doing things that will cause weeds to grow? Insanity. Or, do we make new choices that will kill the root, giving us with a nice garden to relax in?

In our A-H-A Solution program you will be able to see how others with your same attachments have made new choices and what their results have been. It’s really quite easy, when you have the right tools, to stop sabotaging yourself. Life is hard enough. Why make it harder when it doesn’t have to be?

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